Radically Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy (RO DBT)
Specialized Treatment for Perfectionism, Emotional Overcontrol & Social Disconnection
RO DBT is an evidence-based treatment designed for individuals who struggle with overcontrol: a pattern of excessive self-control, perfectionism, emotional inhibition, rigidity, and difficulty forming meaningful social connections.
At Recovery DBT, our adherent RO DBT program helps clients become more open, flexible, and connected while building lasting emotional well-being.
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- We're here to help
A Different Approach to Healing
Radically Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy (RO DBT) is an evidence-based treatment developed by Dr. Thomas Lynch specifically for disorders characterized by excessive self-control, also known as overcontrol. While self-control is generally viewed as a strength, too much of it can become emotionally costly.
People with overcontrol often:
Hide emotions
Set unrealistically high standards
Struggle to be vulnerable
Feel chronically lonely
Appear highly successful while suffering internally
RO DBT helps individuals move beyond rigid coping patterns to build greater openness, flexibility, and genuine social connection.
How RO DBT Differs from Standard DBT
Although they share similar names, RO DBT and traditional DBT treat very different problems.

Traditional DBT was developed for people who experience:
- Emotional dysregulation
- Impulsivity
- Rapid mood shifts
- Difficulty controlling behaviors

RO DBT was created for people who experience:
- Excessive self-control
- Perfectionism
- Emotional inhibition
- Rigidity Social isolation
Rather than helping people gain more control, RO DBT helps individuals become more open, emotionally expressive, and socially connected.
When Self-Control Becomes a Barrier
Overcontrol refers to excessive self-control that begins interfering with emotional health and relationships.

Individuals with overcontrol often appear calm, responsible, and high-achieving, yet internally experience:
- Chronic loneliness
- Difficulty trusting others
- Fear of making mistakes
- Perfectionism
- Emotional suppression
- Difficulty expressing warmth or vulnerability
- Rigid thinking
Research has linked maladaptive overcontrol with conditions including:
- Chronic Depression
- Anorexia Nervosa
- Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder
- Treatment-Resistant Anxiety

You May Benefit from RO DBT If You...
- Are highly perfectionistic
- Feel chronically lonely
- Tend to hide your emotions
- Prefer control over spontaneity
- Struggle with flexibility
- Feel "stuck" despite years of therapy
- Have difficulty connecting with others
- Value achievement but rarely feel fulfilled
Building Connection Through Social Signaling
Unlike many therapies that focus primarily on thoughts and emotions, RO DBT emphasizes social signaling—the subtle ways we communicate with others through:
These signals influence how others experience us and play a critical role in developing trust, closeness, and belonging.
RO DBT teaches practical skills that help clients become more socially connected while maintaining their authentic selves.
What Makes Recovery DBT Different
Adherent RO DBT
Treatment delivered according to the evidence-based RO DBT model.
Experienced Clinicians
Our clinicians are trained in both DBT and RO DBT, allowing us to recommend the treatment approach that best fits each client’s needs.
Insurance Accepted
We work with most major insurance providers to make treatment more accessible.
Continuum of Care
From our Intensive Outpatient Programs (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization (PHP), we provide support at every level of care.
Integrated Care
Clients can transition between levels of care without disrupting treatment.
Multidisciplinary Team
Our therapists and clinical team collaborate to deliver individualized, comprehensive care.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is RO DBT evidence-based?
Yes. RO DBT is a fully manualized, evidence-based treatment developed by Dr. Thomas Lynch and supported by more than 25 years of clinical research.
Is RO DBT different from standard DBT?
What is overcontrol?
Overcontrol is a pattern of excessive self-control that can contribute to perfectionism, emotional inhibition, loneliness, and difficulty forming close relationships.
Do I need to complete DBT before RO DBT?
No. Previous DBT experience is not required. During your assessment, our clinical team will determine whether RO DBT is the most appropriate treatment for your needs.
How long is treatment?
Our RO DBT Intensive Outpatient Program lasts approximately 14 weeks and meets 3–5 days per week.
What conditions can RO DBT help treat?
RO DBT has been studied for individuals experiencing chronic depression, anorexia nervosa, obsessive-compulsive personality disorder, treatment-resistant anxiety, and other conditions characterized by excessive self-control.
Ready to Learn if RO DBT Is Right for You?
If you or someone you love struggles with perfectionism, emotional inhibition, chronic loneliness, or rigid coping patterns, our team can help determine whether RO DBT is the right fit.
- 100% Confidential
- No Pressure
- We're here to help
